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The contempt complaint was tried on February 26, 2025.
After considering evidence including the testimony of both
parents, the judge concluded that the father had not met his
burden to prove that the mother was in contempt of a court
order. Even so, the judge granted the father two additional
makeup video communications with the child. The father appeals.
Discussion. 1. Contempt. As the plaintiff in the
contempt action, the father bore the burden to prove by clear
and convincing evidence that the mother acted in "clear and
undoubted disobedience of a clear and unequivocal command"
(citation omitted). Birchall, petitioner, 454 Mass. 837, 853
(2009). In determining whether the father met that burden, the
judge was required to consider "the totality of the
circumstances." Voorhis v. Relle, 97 Mass. App. Ct. 46, 54
(2020), quoting Wooters v. Wooters, 74 Mass. App. Ct. 839, 844
(2009). We review for an abuse of discretion the judge's ruling
that the mother was not guilty of contempt. See L.F. v. L.J.,
71 Mass. App. Ct. 813, 821 (2008).
As the judge found, the stipulated judgment required that
"[t]he mother shall provide the father . . . in writing within
30 days of relocation" "the name, address, and contact
information of all schools, doctors, dentists, and therapists
where [the child] will be affiliated." The judge credited the
mother's testimony that the child's doctor and dentist were